Olivia Lane Gardner

OLIVIA LANE GARDNER
8.6.10 -- 8.7.10
5 LBS 11 OZ. 20 1/2 IN.

She is our beautiful daughter forever! We love her so much!!

Baby Girl Gardner

This baby girl should decide to make her appearance pretty soon, or they may force her out. They are throwing words around like "induction." Thursday is the deadline...

The upside? No more work for up to 12 weeks from now. Now that is good news!

Cuteness

I (with help from others) have finally finished that quilt that I posted about here. It looks so good! I'm so excited about it! I finished the front and then shipped it all off to Illinois so Vivian could do the actual quilting portion of the quilt! It is so soft and looks so professional! Thanks to Vivian for making it so cute and wonderful! I love it so much! Can't wait to wrap my little girl in it!

In Case You Were Wondering...

She is still in there...

Family Reunion

Last weekend we went to Palisades Lake near Manti, Utah for the Howells family reunion. We all stayed in a big cabin so it was fun to see everyone and just hang out. We went rock climbing (we meaning Ryan did, I watched from the bottom of the wall) and hung out at the Lake, played games and talked. It was a blast! I was a little worried going away when I was so close to my due date but thankfully nothing "came round the mountain." haha.

We didn't take as many pictures as we should have but here are some fun ones that will help you see all the fun things we did. My favorite part was sitting by the lake hanging out and swimming. Swimming was totally great too. It was so much fun! We stopped on the way there at the Manti Temple and walked around taking pictures. The temple is so pretty, I think it looks like a castle! It was beautiful! Thanks for Ryan's family for coming and hanging out with us!!

Photos

Stadium of Fire and Happy Birthday to me!

We got to sit with our Farrell Friends. (I always want to say Brassfields because I forget they aren't Brassfields anymore...)

The Fireworks from Stadium of FireTwo very handsome men

You can see his teeth in this picture. So cute.

Thanks to the Brassfield clan for the fun apron. 36 1/2 weeks:

(and if you didn't notice, brown hair won... at least that is what I decided as I sat in the chair to get it done... I'm happy I did brown. I think it looks more natural...)

Blonde Vs. Brunette

I'm getting my hair done on Tuesday and I need help. I can never decide which I like more Blonde Andrea or Brunette Andrea. Please help before Tuesday because otherwise I have to decide all by myself. Oh, and one other thing... please don't judge hair by pre-pregnancy vs. pregnancy Andrea because we all know that then, Brunette Andrea would win and that just isn't fair.

Here is Blonde Andrea (AKA Pregnant Andrea--again, don't let this factor influence you: focus on the hair--This is also not a professional photo so it isn't as good quality as the picture below).

Brunette Andrea (AKA pre-pregnancy Andrea)

We Look Good in HD

Here is a fun way for all you far away to see my big growing belly. This is me at 34 weeks. But the real exciting news is--the picture was taken with our new fancy camera. Happy Birthday to Me!! And really, don't we look good in HD?

I mean, look how cool the sky looks behind Ry! So crystal clear! I'm loving it. Now I just need to figure out how to use all the fun features! More to come for sure!

Angel Watch

I came across this article about Angel Watch, a program that helps families that have to go through hard times like us. It was really good to hear what other people are doing and to see that other people go through times like this and are able to move on. Although, I can say I probably shouldn't have read it at work in the hospital because that is not where you want to let the tears run down your face freely. But I read it again when I got home, no worries, to get that therapeutic effect.

A few of the quotes really hit me and said what I was feeling, thinking, going through so much better than I could ever say them. So I thought I'd share a little of what goes through my head these days.

"love this baby into the world." One of my favorite things to do it to tell our baby that we love her and that she is the most important thing to us. That way, I know she knows. I need her to know.

This does not have to be the most traumatic experience in a couple's life together. Often a husband and wife will grow closer together, and the father is also given a chance to bond with the child he can't see. Second favorite is when Ryan feels her move. It is funny because a lot of times when I'm with other people, she doesn't want to move around much and be felt, but when Ryan puts his hand on my huge tummy, she flips, kicks, moves all around freely. I think she knows that is her dad out there. She loves him.

But what Angel Watch tries to do is to re-frame what a miracle is: not a cure, perhaps, but maybe a live birth, and if not a live birth at least a chance to create memories and to learn, for example, what music made the baby kick in the womb. It has been a miracle that our little girl has been inside of me for so long. The last time we saw the genetic counselor was in March and even then she said, "It's remarkable that she has made it this far." And yet, here we are at 35 weeks-my belly bigger than ever and my baby as active as ever. That to me is a miracle. That we get to feel her and get to know her because she is ours forever.

"We learned that through really hard times, there is a way to be happy, to love the seconds you have of happiness and joy." There are sad times, but there are so many happy times. Like when we saw her on the Ultrasound and she had the hiccups. I laughed pretty hard about that. To look up at the screen and see her little diaphragm going up and down while feeling the little twitch of hiccups inside of me. It made me truly happy. I love when I put my hand on the part of my belly where I know her feet are and I feel her foot scrape across my hand. It makes me happy because I realize there is my child inside of me and she has these cute little feet that one day I get to hold and kiss and love. And that makes me happy (I swear, I'm happy even though it brings tears to my eyes). We have to find happiness in this time because to not is dumb. I want my baby to hear me laugh and to feel me smile; not only know the sound of my cry and the feeling of sadness. She deserves a smile and laughter for all of her life. So for her and because of her I still smile and laugh and love life.

Our baby girl is getting so close to coming out to meet us and a part of me is terrified. I tell her she can stay in there forever if she needs to (even though the swollen ankles and tired feet say otherwise). I would do anything for her and I know she knows that we love her a lot. She is one lucky baby to have so much love around her.

How Could You Not Go to California for THIS!!

She is so adorable it kills me to leave her! But it was fun to see her while I could! Love you Cade!

She loved sporting my glasses and I love the look she is giving me in this picture, like, "What are you looking at?" haha.

Lookin' good!

I Have the Best Mom Ever

Ya, those are my new shoes on my feet. She really does love me. Thanks Mom! This deserves another look. So beautiful!

Lately...

Here are some random pictures of our life of late.

We got an email the other day inviting us to a new graduate alumni pre-game cookout. We had J-Dawgs on the lawn and soaked up some sun. It was a pretty awesome day and we do love our baseball games. Not sure if the Cougars won because we left a little early, but that's okay. Here we are eating our hotdogs before the game.

Ryan eating in the shade because he hates the sun. Or, as he says, the sun hates him.

Ben and Shalon (Ryan's brother and wife) came to town to see us and so we went wandering around Thanksgiving Point-only to find out there was a sheep festival. We saw sheep, goats, horses, cows, a mini pony (it was tiny), and a lot of other animals. Here is Ryan feeding the baby goat corn. Ryan's birthday is coming up and so we of course got our yearly Tucano's Birthday Postcard. We headed to Tucanos with Ry's brothers and we pigged out on a lot of meat. Too much meat for most of us and really just too much grilled pineapple for me(seriously it is delicious). Everyone was making fun of me because when the pineapple came around I would take like 5 each time and everyone else took like 1. What can I say, I love that pineapple! Notice that in the first picture, I have never looked more pregnant. I think the amount of food I ate took up just as much room as the baby in there! Oh, we were full. After the feast. Relaxing and letting the digesting begin.

Dedication

Dedication is when Ryan wants steak for dinner and it's raining outside. Instead of cooking it on the stove, he goes out in the rain and heats up the grill to make his favorite meal. Incredible dedication and loyalty. It's admirable, really!

Remember These?

I've been wanting a pair of these lately. The problem is, I think I have to go to California to get them because when we told the lady at Nordstrom here in Utah that we wanted Jack Purcells, she said, "What? I've never heard of those." Shucks, I guess California it is!

Dextrose

"You have to finish this within 5 minutes."
"What happens if I throw up during or directly after I drink it?"

Ok, so I didn't really ask them this question but I was wondering it the entire time I was drinking this fantastic little Cocktail they gave me at the hospital today. 50g of straight sugary grossness. I feel like they should hand you an orange soda and it would have the same effect and be 100 times better tasting and wouldn't make me as sick. I'll put it in the suggestion box and see what they say.

In other news, baby is doing great. Heart rate is normal. Measuring normal size. My belly feels greater than normal size but people promise me it doesn't look it (or they are just being nice). I feel her move all the time now and other people can feel her kick too now. Its fun to feel her move all about. Sometimes I think she may be doing somersaults or perhaps looking for a way out. We tell her often that she has to stay in there for at least 10 more weeks... We'll see how obedient she is.

I've been feeling awfully tired lately. Not sure if that is an effect of the pregnancy or the repurcusions of doing 3 night shifts last week. Either way, I feel like I could sleep forever. I try really hard to not let myself be that lazy, but it is getting kinda hard to not sleep in till 11 when I don't have work. It just makes getting up at 5 harder on days I do have to work.

Oh ya, work... I haven't posted anything about my working life since I announced I actually got the job. Work is... well work, but it is good. I usually work 3 shifts a week that are from 6AM-6PM (which really is 6:30-7PM on most nights). This means I am up at 5 (ok, really 5:15) and leave my house by about 5:25 AM. (Which shows you how beautiful I look at work... haha, yes, there is no getting ready on these days). This gets me to the hospital, clocked in and ready for report by 6AM. Physically at least. I don't think I'm mentally ready for report until 10 AM, but that doesn't fly too well with the night nurses. My day consists of lots of running around and doing random things for my patients. Diet coke, Dr. Pepper, Sprite, Diet Coke, Regular Coke no ice, apple juice, oreo cookies... At least sometimes that is how I feel--like a waitress. But no, really. My day starts out with assessments on every patient, taking vital signs, giving medications, charting, reassessing, more charting, more meds, calling doctors, answering doctor's questions (when I can) and hoping to not be yelled at by the doctors. I normally get 3-4 patients and I'm in charge of getting everything done. Up until now, I've been with an orienter who has been there to answer all my questions, catch me up when I'm behind, talk to a doctor for me because my patient is writhing in pain and needs morphine now. But as of this week, tomorrow actually, I'm 100% on my own. I'm slightly worried about this, but also kind of relieved. It will be nice to not have to answer to someone else when I know what I'm doing, but it will be nerve racking to sit there and not know what to do, when I don't know what I'm doing. Good thing the nurses on the floor are really nice and willing to help out most of the time. So, again, work is work, but at least I get to be with nice nurses who are fun and roughly the same age as me so we can chat about all the fun happenings of life. I then come home and my wonderful husband rubs my feel for 30 minutes every night and has dinner ready right as the 30 minutes are up. Ok, not really, but he does seem to know what a good day consists of for me at the hospital. The other day I got this text: "I hope you are having a good day (no admits, cute patients--cute old ladies or kids, and no poop)" Ya, I'd say that is a great day in my book. He knows me well, either that or I complain a little too much. I'm gonna go with he knows me well.

I've been really bad at posting lately. Sorry. I will try a little harder to be a little more exciting.